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〜てはじめて: only after; not until
N2 · 02 Time and sequence
Says that you realize or can do something only after you have done a certain thing.
Verb te-form + はじめて. A realization or change follows: 失ってはじめて大切さがわかる. The first action is a necessary condition. The result is not a plan or command. Kanji: 初めて.
Examples
海外に住んでみてはじめて、日本の良さがわかった。
It was only after I lived abroad that I understood Japan's good points.
病気になってはじめて、健康のありがたみを知った。
Only after getting sick did I learn to appreciate good health.